Derailed Divorces

I understand that gearing up for a trial can be challenging, especially when you're dealing with the aftermath of emotional abuse.

You have two options here: either modify your settlement stance to be more favorable to your spouse or brace yourself and begin preparing for the trial.

In certain situations like these, it could be more beneficial to channel your energy into trial preparation rather than engaging in fruitless settlement talks. That's why I offer a fixed fee for these kinds of matters, providing a transparent budget for those grappling with this distressing situation.

Remember, you're not alone. Many accomplished individuals have endured derailed divorces due to difficult spouses. A recent example of a case that reached a court decision can be found here. Take note of the thorough preparation that led to this outcome.

Firstly, I understand that you're experiencing significant pain and frustration, which would be overwhelming for anyone.


Secondly, there are times when the only solution to a problem is to apply pressure, and the most effective way to do this is by having a trial. 


So, we must focus on being creative rather than just reacting to our bad situation. We must present a perspective that allows the court to comprehend what’s happening.


Having a discerning judge on your side certainly won't hurt either.


Behaving appropriately throughout the litigation also pays dividends, even if your spouse acts out.

I realize you're in a difficult place right now, and it truly is tough, but I see a way forward for you that can lead to a more positive life after divorce.


If your trial is scheduled for less than 120 days from today, please do yourself a favor and start preparing for it now. It will most likely pay dividends.

Sadly, an increasing number of individuals feel trapped after spending years in the divorce system.

Things are going differently than you planned.

You believe your attorney needs to be helping you, but now that the trial is approaching, your attorney wants out of the case.

You feel lost in the legal system and want your attorney to do their job.

Settlement talks have stalled. If you're in this situation, you can consider switching lawyers.

We offer a straightforward, one-time retainer fee for derailed divorces.

Here are the top ten steps you need to take to prepare for a trial:

1. Ensure that the Discovery phase is completed, which includes Depositions, Valuations, and Subpoenas;

2. Prepare an updated Statement of Net Worth;

3. Draft a Statement of Proposed Disposition;

4. Prepare Witness, If Any;

5. Create an Inventory of Potential Exhibits;

6. Prepare for Direct Examination;

7. Prepare for Cross-Examination;

8. Plan Opening Statement;

9. Prepare the Closing Statement; and

10. Create a Settlement Position Strategy.

Yes, we do. Trials can be costly, but in some situations, they are necessary. Having a clear understanding of the fees involved can help you plan your budget. You can find more information about our fees on our dedicated page.

Divorce can be complicated to resolve amicably due to the emotional component involved. When heightened emotions are involved, some people tend to take positions in their divorce that are just a proxy for unresolved issues they have had in their marriage. Trying to work out these dynamics in a competitive legal process is about as efficient as getting to Antarctica by a rowboat.

If you are in one of these multi-year divorces, the best tactic is to do everything you can not to escalate the drama. This takes a lot of work, but it's worth it. Remember, you are playing the long game, and your vision of your post-divorce life is what is calling you to a brighter future. Don't let your reactive side make you do something that you will later regret, as such actions are usually only a result of your boundaries being violated.